Posted by: afrokittay on: February 7, 2010
Posted by: L. Jones.. on: February 5, 2010
I never paid too much attention to this song/video called Pursuit of Happiness by Kid Cudi until I was told about it through a co-worker. I listened to it (as well as his album “Man on the Moon“. It’s awesome and very down-to-earth) and became a fan of the song and the artist. Then it got me to wondering….what makes me happy? Then I also got to wondering…what makes YOU happy?
We all look for some type of happiness, whether it be temporary pleasure or long term accomplishments, but what happens to us emotionally when we reach that plateau and the feeling has subsided? It reminds me of a dog trying to chase a car. Once the dog actually reaches the car, then what? It doesn’t know what to do but just stand there, walking off in disdain. All it knows is to run after the car and he’ll be damned if he doesn’t catch it. It’s interesting to see people getting to that point where they work so hard to “chase the car”, whether it be working hard in college, searching for romance from a significant other, landing that big promotion at work, etc… only to be lost and not know what to do once they reach it. I used to hear from my elders that once you’ve completed all the things you set out to do, you die. I always thought they meant we would pass on to Heaven, but as I got older I realized things old folks say sometimes have multiple meanings. Perhaps the fire inside you dies and contentment kicks in. Well if that’s the case, then I’m going to forever be on the pursuit of happiness…I’ll be fine when I get it..I’ll be good…
Just my thoughts.
L. Jones..
Posted by: maciebynite on: February 1, 2010
I was watching the M&M Superbowl commercial where the red M&M is running on the check out counter trying to avoid being scanned and bagged. He is out of breath as he runs, trying to escape being added to the groceries. He looks back from time to time to make sure there is distance between him and the scanner but what he fails to do is keep an eye on what’s ahead of him. Finally he looks forward and BAM, its too late…he can’t run anymore because there are things in his way. He’s come to the end of the line. The little guy gives it one last shot but runs face first into a cooler and the rest of the food for the party. The red M&M still does not let fate take him without one last fight. He refuses to let the clerk scan him and places himself on the scanner. The next thing you know he is in the shopping bag (paper not plastic I might add) next to the yellow M&M who is this happy go lucky random guy who was so easily scanned and bagged right from the beginning. He did ‘t put up a fight at all. In fact, he looks at the red guy and announces “hey we’re on the guest list”.
What does this have to do with life? Well its simple; some of us are naive and go with the flow of things like the yellow M&M. It doesn’t take much to capture those guys because they live by the motto “whatever happens, happens”. They find pleasure in the result , no matter what it may be. To them, there is always a silver lining to every dark cloud.
Then there are those who will try to run from their destiny , like the red M&M. They give it their all sometimes while looking to make sure they don’t fall victim to what lies beyond. They tend to forget to look ahead for the hurdles that may be too big to overcome, thus ending up in the bag and at the party. A strong fight is put up to not get there. Once the race is over, their pride is still intact and they refuse a hand out (the cashier scanning them). They handle the foreseeable destination with dignity and class. Once they are “bagged” and ready to be taken on the last leg of their journey, they are reminded that they are not just going to the party but just might be a part of what has brought everyone to the party in the first place.
So I pose this question……which are you? Are you that determined red M&M who will try and run from the inevitable or are you the yellow M&M who just sits back and takes life as it comes? I myself would like to say that I’m the tough guy red M&M who will run this race to the end…and when done, I still wont conceit easily. I will go out with pride and my head held high because I will have had the opportunnity to face my challenges and prove my strength.
I know this was RANDOM but its M@ciebyNite.
Posted by: L. Jones.. on: January 31, 2010

Who says you can’t have fun just being you?? The world is a trip sometimes when it comes to portraying intellect. We as people often act as if we’re too sophisticated to do something that would be out of the ordinary. Sometimes you gotta have balls. Sometimes you gotta push the envelope. Sometimes we have to make stupid decisions so we can live to tell about it. Let’s get out of the whole “I’m smarter than that” view of situations. When it’s all said and done, being smart may have the brains to think about it, but being stupid has the balls to actually do it…
“The stupid are the only ones brave enough to do what no one in their right mind would do. The stupid, you see, know there are worse things that failure-like not even trying. But try they do, tallying up the impossible odds and going ahead and doing it anyway”. ~compliments of Diesel Clothing (which have the best clothes, by the way)~
L. Jones…
Posted by: L. Jones.. on: January 29, 2010
Hey there folks. Here at S…A2D (that’s SiMpLe..aCcOrDiNg tO DaWnYeLe, for the slow pokes), we’re always looking for brand new eyes…well not literally, that would be gross. AfroKittay and myself are always willing to pull some craziness out of our minds to deliver to the masses. Needless to say, it sometimes gets difficult to keep everyone up to date with us and the things we think about. So instead of just us two versus the world, we decided to add additional people to the mix. Expansion is good, right? The more writers for the blog, the merrier!! Nonetheless, I want to introduce something fresh to the scene. M@cieByNite is here to contribute her complete randomness to DaWnYeLe! She has been rated one of the most random people in the world by leading magazines…ok I’m lying, but she is still cool as hell. So enjoy the smooth sounds (or words) of the infamous M.B.N. (again for the slow pokes, that’s M@cieByNite).
L. Jones..
Posted by: L. Jones.. on: January 24, 2010

Congratulations to the New Orleans Saints, NFC Champions!
Posted by: afrokittay on: January 15, 2010
The effects of the recent earthquake in Haiti have touched many people around the globe. The total loss of life is growing daily and the damage will effect the country in every way possible. I pray for the people of Haiti, and in my recent search for reputable orginazations accepting donations, I found a very cool way to help fulfill a basic need.
One of my fav online shoe stores desiger shoes.com.features an orginazation that’s accepting GENTLY WORN shoes to be sent to those in need. Haitian climate ranges from 72-85 degrees farenheit during the dry season, so please consider this when donating. A good sneaker or sturdy sandal would be ideal for wear in this climate, especially in larger sizes. More info on this cause can be found here
Peace folks.
AK
1/20/10,Update: text YELE to 501501 to contribute $5.00 to relief efforts. There will be a one-time charge to your mobile-phone bill, and you may donate up to six times. For more info visit Yele Haiti
Posted by: L. Jones.. on: January 12, 2010
Hi. L. Jones back at it again. I know, I know….it’s been a good little while since I contributed my knowledge to the masses but it’s been kind of crazy lately. But alas, we are back in business with promise to our faithful readers. AfroKittay and myself are going to share our thoughts more frequently and fluidly (if that’s a word…hmm…). Anywho, here I am with a question to all…..remember the time we had no cell phones to tie us down to life? Remember when the only thing we had to use was “the house phone”? Remember this little gem pictured above? It was one of the first mobile phones by Motorola. Sure, it was like $2 dollars a minute with no night and weekends, but what the hell! It was cool to have and we would only use it for “emergencies”. My have things changed in the course of 13 years. Now we can’t determine if we need touchscreen or pda, unlimited calls or free mobile to mobile, internet plans or unlimited texts. Wow. It has gotten so out of hand, there are 4 year olds with cell phones! Do you know what I was doing when I was 4? Exactly…I don’t remember anything at that age! I guess what I’m saying is we need to take the time to remember how difficult it was get in contact with people-and that’s a good thing. I declare everyone to devote at least 2 hours a day with no cell phone. As difficult as it may sound, those couple of hours will provide us with a chance to focus our attention on what’s more important-ourselves. A day without constant access and communication is a SiMpLe day. It’s the new year….change one thing about yourself.
L. Jones…
Posted by: afrokittay on: January 6, 2010
Hello people. Long time no convo. The holidays and the crazy that is this time of year got to be a little much, hence the unplanned hiatus. I’m back now, still sleep deprived and looney but here nonetheless. NYE came and went. What did you do? Can’t remember? Lol. I’ve been good, sober as a nun and quiet as a churchmouse trying to turn over a few new leaves. I don’t get into the practice of making new years resolutions, but I have promised myself that I will be making it a top priority to stay in good health. Your girl is a long time serial procrastinator, often neglecting to tend to all those little doctor’s appointments and health matters until a big flashing red flag peeks out and slaps me in the face. It’s a bad thing and it’s definitely gonna have to stop.
I realized yesterday (during my late-as-hell attempt to alter my class schedule) that January marks the beginning of the new year, a new decade, and also national cervical cancer awareness month.
*What is Cervical Health Awareness Month? The United States Congress designated January as Cervical Health Awareness Month. During January, you may wish to highlight issues related to cervical cancer, HPV disease and the importance of early detection. Some of the issues you may wish to highlight are personal stories of women and family members/caregivers battling issues related to their persistent HPV/precancer and/or cervical cancer. You may wish to highlight recent advances and research in the prevention, detection and treatment of cervical cancer or HPV. You can highlight the success of your local/regional early detection cervical cancer screening and treatment programs and human-interest stories on the importance of early detection, education and the emotional issues related to battling cervical cancer and HPV.*
Brothers, sisters, mothers and others, make sure the women in your life keep their health in check. Rock the turquoise this month, take a loved one to the doctor and educate yourself more on these issues, as they could one day be life-saving.
A.K.
Source:NCCC
Posted by: L. Jones.. on: December 26, 2009
December 26th…The one day most people in retail hates. It’s Return Day. You know, those pair of socks with the bunny ears that your aunt Clara just had to get you…The Santa sweater that makes your tummy turn (what am I, 6 years old??)..or worse, that one electronic gadget that just didn’t work, no matter how many batteries you tried (and that’s that one I really wanted). Oh well, you and several thousand others will be standing in that Wal-Mart line, patiently for 3 hours just so they can tell you “Sorry no refunds. Exchanges or store credit only”. WTF!! No worries though because you can at least buy groceries there. Nonetheless, Happy Dec. 26th to everyone….and good luck!
L. Jones…
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